DEAR ASK A PUNK - I live with my girlfriend. We get along great, but now she wants to be in my band. She can play guitar fine, better than a lot of guys I know, but not better than me. I guess I just don't get why she wants to. We usually don't agree on stuff musically anyway and I don't think we would be good collaborators. And also if we were in a band together on top of living together I think that would be too much together stuff. It's not like I want to cheat on her or anything but I want to keep my band stuff different from my home life.. and what if we did break up or something? then that drama would cause even more problems if we were in a band together too. and that would also piss off the other guys in the band. …RobertRobert